What you can do & say to comfort someone after a miscarriage

Remember to take your time and be kind and gentle with your friend or relative. Every one has their own grieving
ways and time frame. Don't expect them to "get over it." Just be there and offer a shoulder and a comforting hug.

Don’t forget dads and siblings
While a miscarriage naturally impacts the mother the most, the baby’s father and other children in the family (if any)
should not be forgotten. They may be struggling with their own feelings of shock, confusion and loss. Simple
questions like “How are you doing? Do you want to talk?” can let them know they’re not forgotten. A phone call, a
note, an invitation to have coffee or get ice cream will convey the message that “I know you’ve experienced a loss,
too — and I care!”

Compiled from ideas gathered on the net